Contrary to what it may sometimes seem, bottoms are not just interchangeable bodies whose only responsibilities are listing limits, taking pain and safe wording. A great bottom can help a top
get more out of a scene, elevate a scene from good to great, and even open the door to edgier types of play.
honey will begin by discussing what can make an experience a great one for both the top and the bottom, and what you can do to enhance the experience, even if you’re not the one throwing rope or a whip. We’ll move on to talk about types of effective negotiation and communication during scenes, as well as ways to protect yourself and what to do if things go awry. We will examine everything from light pickup play to safely exploring heavier and edgier play, and various types of consent models. Regardless of what you’re interested in, honey will help you to be a more informed partner, as well as to develop the tools you need in order to foster an amazing scene–from the bottom!
honey_bare is a queer nonbinary femme and a sadomasochistic rope-switch with a propensity towards edgy and heavier play. They are actively involved in the DC/Baltimore scene and can often be seen at The Krakens’ Lair making lovely people scream in their ropes. honey learns from and is inspired by many teachers in rope, and hopes to tie always with intent and functionality as well as aesthetic. honey also enjoys erotic bondage (and non-bondage) photography, and is always looking for the perfect shot. honey has presented and performed for Krakens AKademy, Black Rose, Dark Odyssey, MBE, Baltimore TNG, DC TNG, Thunder in the Mountains, Austin Rope Slingers, and other events in their local scene. honey loves spreading joy and experiences in kink to others any chance they get!